I agree. My motto when it comes to relationships is, 'Trust is earned, not given.' A person has to prove to me why I should trust them; I'm not going to trust someone automatically when it comes to dating.
Actions speak louder than words.
For me, it's 50 Cent's 'In Da Club' and Eminem's 'Cleaning Out My Closet.' Another song that takes me back is J-Kwon's 'Tipsy' and Mims' 'This Is Why I'm Hot.'"
One of the most important lessons I learned from a relationship I was in was to never trust someone too soon in a relationship. I did just that and ended up suffering for 11 years in a mentally abusive relationship.
I am out of that situation now and happier but I definitely learned a very important lesson.