MegaphoneStallone Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 Do you prefer to live alone, or with family/room mates/whatever? Personally, I have never lived alone and don't know that I could. I was looking to move out of my parents house (I was literally looking at places to live at the time) when I met my wife, but I wound up getting married and moving in with her. Looking back, maybe living alone would have been bad for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o-o Posted November 2, 2018 Share Posted November 2, 2018 I prefer with others. Yes, alone is pretty awesome because you have your freedom, but until some point. It is kinda bored in the long-term. Living with family/friends are the best way, if you understand each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MegaphoneStallone Posted November 2, 2018 Author Share Posted November 2, 2018 11 hours ago, o-o said: I prefer with others. Yes, alone is pretty awesome because you have your freedom, but until some point. It is kinda bored in the long-term. Living with family/friends are the best way, if you understand each other. I feel if you're an adult you should have your freedom no matter who you live with. If I didn't, that's certainly a situation I would want to leave quick smart - even if it means living on my lonesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katri Marcell Posted November 3, 2018 Share Posted November 3, 2018 I think I would probably get batshit crazy if I lived alone. I'm currently living with my sister and will only move out when I go live with my boyfriend. Whenever she goes on a job trip and such i'm getting serious panic attacks so living with others is the best IMO 😄 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o-o Posted November 3, 2018 Share Posted November 3, 2018 On 11/3/2018 at 12:20 AM, MegaphoneStallone said: I feel if you're an adult you should have your freedom no matter who you live with. If I didn't, that's certainly a situation I would want to leave quick smart - even if it means living on my lonesome. Totally agree with you 🙂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerlene Posted November 7, 2018 Share Posted November 7, 2018 I prefer to live with just my girlfriend and our kitty cats. That kind of counts as alone. I wouldn't want roommates though. I can't stand when people don't pull their weight or pick up after themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MegaphoneStallone Posted November 8, 2018 Author Share Posted November 8, 2018 23 hours ago, Jerlene said: I prefer to live with just my girlfriend and our kitty cats. That kind of counts as alone. I wouldn't want roommates though. I can't stand when people don't pull their weight or pick up after themselves. That doesn't count as alone at all. It counts as with your girlfriend and fur babies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerlene Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 A lot of people would disagree with that because couples "become one" and saying "I" or "my" usually means "we" and "ours". I guess I'm kind of one of those people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MegaphoneStallone Posted November 10, 2018 Author Share Posted November 10, 2018 5 hours ago, Jerlene said: A lot of people would disagree with that because couples "become one" and saying "I" or "my" usually means "we" and "ours". I guess I'm kind of one of those people. That's cool, I guess. My wife and I aren't. We're soul mates, best friends, etc. Buuuuuttt...We have different lives, interests, even friendship groups. We are very individual despite a nearly 10 year marriage, and three children and being as in love as ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerlene Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 You have different friends? How does that work? I've tried it but we end up getting along with each others friends so now everyone is friends. Sometimes I feel like I don't have my own life anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MegaphoneStallone Posted November 13, 2018 Author Share Posted November 13, 2018 13 hours ago, Jerlene said: You have different friends? How does that work? I've tried it but we end up getting along with each others friends so now everyone is friends. Sometimes I feel like I don't have my own life anymore. She hangs with her peeps. I hang with mine. We occasionally +1 to each others things - but neither of our friends invite us somewhere expecting the other one will come as a rule. It's a pretty sweet life. I wouldn't want to do things any other way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerlene Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 That does sound pretty sweet. I love my girlfriend, but a little time alone and with friends of our own could do us some good. Also, our friends totally invite one expecting for the other to show us as well. We're THAT couple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italianmunchiez Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 I rather live with someone else incase something bad happens or just for the company I mean being alone isn't good for your health. 😛 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerlene Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 Those are both good reasons. If I live alone there's no one else to distract the intruders while I get away. lol Nah. I do love company occasionally though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DC Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 I prefer living alone. Once you live alone it's hard to move back in with roommates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...