The Blackangel Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 I will be absent from the forum for an extended period. My baby Gypsy died tonight. My mind has mostly shut off and I can barely think. I can barely even breathe. I don’t know when I’ll be back, but I will eventually return at some point. Jaicee and Shagger 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shagger Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 I can't pretend to know what you're going through right now, but please know, whenever you're ready, we're here for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reality vs Adventure Posted February 17, 2021 Share Posted February 17, 2021 So sorry!!! Wish I can take some of your hurt away. Gypsy is so cute. But communicating is a good therapy so you don't feel alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Blackangel Posted February 25, 2021 Author Share Posted February 25, 2021 This is just a quick note to let everyone who even gives a shit know that my absence will be longer than expected. I found one of my rats and one of my dragons dead today. So I honestly don’t know when to reasonably expect me back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reality vs Adventure Posted February 25, 2021 Share Posted February 25, 2021 What is going on? Is it the cold? Well, I feel for you and was hoping to hear from you soon. I personally don't handle things like that too well. I haven't had much of a family growing up, so my pets are something extra special. And I think you may have a similar outlook. Hope things get better for you real soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shagger Posted February 25, 2021 Share Posted February 25, 2021 3 hours ago, The Blackangel said: This is just a quick note to let everyone who even gives a shit know that my absence will be longer than expected. I found one of my rats and one of my dragons dead today. So I honestly don’t know when to reasonably expect me back. Once again, so sorry. That in no universe is fair. Just take all the time you need, but also remember that we're here for you.l if you need anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Blackangel Posted February 26, 2021 Author Share Posted February 26, 2021 I know I said I didn't know when to expect me, but I decided that I need a distraction this morning. So I'm going to start posting again. Slowly but surely I'll be getting back to my usual activity. Just don't expect too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reality vs Adventure Posted February 26, 2021 Share Posted February 26, 2021 You have been missed here. I'm yanking my hair out cause I need a dose of your lovely personality!!! 😀 Well, there is fear ahead for me because I know the day will eventually come where my babies will all age at once. I am preparing my mindset for the suffering. No matter how pissed and hurt I know I'll get, I can't deny the joy and all the love my babies give me. Take this heart and kick it. I know life will do that to me. It always has. But what joy will there ever have been without ever having any babies? So take this heart and kick it again. Cause maybe I'm stupid enough to keep testing my heart with every pet I own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killamch89 Posted February 28, 2021 Share Posted February 28, 2021 As a dog owner, I can so feel your pain. Loosing a dog especially one that's been apart of your life for an extended period of time is incredibly tough. My advice is take the time to grief but also remember the good times you've had with them. How are your other dogs reacting to this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
